The Best Sex Positions for Beginners
By hooeika
On 12/08/2021 17:17:00
There are so many ways to have penetrative sex, and when you're a beginner, it's best to go with positions that are tried and true, without too much fanfare. As a sex educator, I highly recommend getting comfortable with the basics before jumping into anything too intense. (Hello, amazon sex position!) Even though many magazines, porn videos, and urban legends will tell you otherwise, there is nothing wrong with keeping it simple and mastering the basics — such as these best sex positions for beginners — before jumping into the sexual deep end. Adventurous sex positions are fun, but when you're first starting out on your sexual journey (or perhaps just starting out with a new partner), you have to figure out what does and doesn't work for you. It's all about trying things out and deciding what you're into. (Also worth noting: Penetration isn't the only way to have sex! Hand stuff, oral sex, anal play, even grinding are all valid and super fun ways to have sex, too.) Why? Well, if you're too busy trying to show off for a partner (and yourself) by bending yourself into a pretzel, you probably won't be able to get into the headspace to connect with your body and have an orgasm. "When you're having sex, you want to be focused on you and your partner's pleasure — not your cramping abs because you're in a needlessly strenuous position," explains Zachary Zane, a sex expert for Lovehoney. "That's why, with sex positions, you really don't need to reinvent the wheel."

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